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I’m sweating to celebrate and uplift my Rainbow whānau

Why I’m Sweating with Pride

I'm taking on Sweat with Pride this June! 💦🌈

Right now, schools, workplaces, and even doctors’ offices aren’t safe for many in our community—and it’s putting lives at risk. LGBTQIA+ Kiwis face higher rates of mental illness, suicide, and STIs like syphilis, mpox, and HIV.

So, I'm fighting discrimination with perspiration—exercising 21 minutes every day in June to raise money for life-changing Rainbow support services. I'm not a very sweaty person and tbh most of my exercise will be part of my commute to/from work so on top of this (same as last year) I will be making a donation for each queer book I read this month! I'll probably write just a small review and paste in the blurb because I honestly do not like writing reviews and overall don't find them very helpful but maybe you'll find something that piques your interest.


Thank you so much for your support! ❤️

My Fundraising

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$100

Provides vital resources to support Rainbow communities

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$300

Free, confidential mental health support for Rainbow Kiwis

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$500

Ensures more people can access life-changing health services without cost barriers

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$1,000

Fund an educational workshop to create safer, more inclusive spaces

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$2,500

Provides a full day of community outreach, to improve wellbeing and reduce stigma on a large scale

💖 I’m $200 away from my next impact milestone. Will you help me reach it?

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I’m sweating for 42 minutes per day this June!

1,310 minutes completed
1,260 minutes goal

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2 more, one that's been on my tbr for ages, and one out of my comfort zone

Saturday 28 June 2025
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Multiple goals were reached this week - between hitting my sweat goal and finishing 6 books in total this month, I'm on a roll! A History Of My Brief Body by Billy-Ray Belcourt is a haunting, poetically written memoir. Beautiful, philosophical, brilliant. Mentions of utopia as a process always hit in the best ways so I was sold from the get go. The only thing keeping this from 5 stars is that it didn't make me cry, got very close and had me staring at the wall a few times though. Highly, highly recommend. Murder in the Dressing Room - Holly Stars is a ?cosy? mystery. I hesitate to actually call it cosy because people are dead, is that just what the genre is like? (yes) What a ride. A lovable cast of character, absolute chaos, incompetent law enforcement, a catburgler and poisoner brought to justice. Mystery might not be my favourite genre but I enjoyed the ride.

Two more down!

Wednesday 18 June 2025
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Apparently I'm doing two at a time this year but y'know, that's fine. I've made donations to cover two more reviews so apparently I'm committing to finishing 6 books this month (at this rate I might be lucky D: ) 


Aand to the reviews!

Flux by Jinwoo Chong 
"Four days before Christmas, 8-year-old Bo loses his mother in a tragic accident, 28-year-old Brandon loses his job after a hostile takeover of his big-media employer, and 48-year-old Blue, a key witness in a criminal trial against an infamous now-defunct tech startup, struggles to reconnect with his family.
So begins Jinwoo Chong’s dazzling, time-bending debut that blends elements of neo-noir and speculative fiction as the lives of Bo, Brandon, and Blue begin to intersect, uncovering a vast network of secrets and an experimental technology that threatens to upend life itself. Intertwined with them is the saga of an iconic ’80s detective show, Raider, whose star actor has imploded spectacularly after revelations of long-term, concealed abuse.
 Flux is a haunting and sometimes shocking exploration of the cyclical nature of grief, of moving past trauma, and of the pervasive nature of whiteness within the development of Asian identity in America."
Okay maybe I don't hate sci-fi - or maybe my love for an unlikeable protagonist and bisexual representation outweighs it. Time travel is weird and characters interacting with a character who has dementia always makes me cry so there we go. 
Marked down points for the first time Jacket Guy eats a hot dog and the e-reader font/size combo made line, very unfortunately, read steaming hot (next line) dog which was so startling in a way that I can't blame the author for but had long lasting effect on my reading experience.

She Loves to Cook, She Loves to Eat, Volume 5 - Sakaomi Yuzaki
"Nomoto-san and Kasuga-san have decided to live together, but apartment hunting as a same-sex couple has been quite the stormy voyage. Luckily, Yako-san connects them with a realtor that may be able to help—and slowly but surely, the pair move toward their new life together. Meanwhile, Nagumo-san has taken a good look at herself, and she decides to pay a visit to the hospital… "
Another year and I'm still making my way through this series as it's released in English and I'm still loving it. Pure asexual lesbian joy. But also has great social phobia rep (one of the characters has Deipnophobia that she is seeking treatment for) that is respected by the other characters in a way that is so refreshing to read. 

I read some books (definitely not just one plus another one that I loved so want to talk about)

Friday 6 June 2025
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"At age 30, Shou Arai came to a realization; they had no gender. Now they were faced with a question they'd never really considered: how to age in a society where everything is so strongly segregated between two genders? This autobiographical manga explores Japanese culture surrounding gender, transgender issues, and the day to day obstacles faced by gender minorities and members of the LGBTQIA+ community with a lighthearted, comedic attitude." Yesterday I finished reading "At 30, I Realised I had no Gender" and the fact that I started reading it in March should have predicted how I'd feel about it overall. It provided a great peak into life as an intersex person raised and living in Japan but it was paced in a way that didn't draw me in (being a kind of question and answer per page structure that didn't have much flow between sections) and gave me the classic "Gen Z has a problem with age gap relationships" ick. It really didn't help that multiple times he would comment on how young his partner looks and acts and the partner referred to himself as 18 (and/or 18 and several years worth of months) On a happier note, I also recently finished "Stop Me if You've Heard This One" by Kristen Arnett and absolutely loved it. "Cherry Hendricks might be down on her luck, but she can write the book on what makes something funny: she’s a professional clown who creates raucous, zany fun at gigs all over Orlando. Between her clowning and her shifts at an aquarium store for extra cash, she’s always hustling. Not to mention balancing her judgmental mother, her messy love life, and her equally messy community of fellow performers. Things start looking up when Cherry meets Margot the Magnificent—a much older lesbian magician—who seems to have worked out the lines between art, business, and life, and has a slick, successful career to prove it. With Margot’s mentorship and industry connections, Cherry is sure to take her art to the next level. Plus, Margot is sexy as hell. It’s not long before Cherry must decide how much she’s willing to risk for Margot and for her own explosive new act—and what kind of clown she wants to be under her suit. Equal parts bravado, tenderness, and humor, and bursting with misfits, magicians, musicians, and mimes, Stop Me If You've Heard This One is a masterpiece of comedic fiction that asks big questions about art and performance, friendship and community, and the importance of timing in jokes and in life." This book had so much audacity from the jump and I loved every moment of it. It's fun, it's fresh, I love clowns anyway so of course I was going to be hooked from the start but it could have gone so sour and didn't. One of the few romances I've read that wasn't full of awkward writing, errors and general jank (maybe because it's not really a romance but yknow). 5/5, best thing I've read this year so far.

Another year, another set of books!

Tuesday 3 June 2025

Once again, I'm still not much of a person for exercising so while I'll be toddling along this month, I'll make a personal donation each time I finish a queer book. 


My reading pace has slowed a bit so hopefully getting into some good queer books will get me back on track! 

Like in the past, I'll post a cheeky review of each book I read so keep an eye out <3

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Raised so far:

$916

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Raised $165 of $150 goal

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Raised $301 of $300 goal

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Raised $150 of $300 goal

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Raised $300 of $500 goal

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$60

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$60

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Keep on sweating! Arohanui, 2degrees, AA Insurance, Auckland Council, Datacom, L’Oréal, and Tend.

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Sweaty Besties

Keep on sweating! Arohanui, 2degrees, AA Insurance, Auckland Council, Datacom, L’Oréal, and Tend.

$30

Willow Bailey

$30

BNZ, Durex, and Les Mills

Keep on sweating! Arohanui, BNZ, Durex, and Les Mills.

$25

Kris

$25

Fiona Campbell

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